black-tobiano:

thecityhorse:

yeezytaughtme:

“In year 7 you were already uncomfortable around me, so I manipulated our teacher into putting us together for a project and when you didn’t want to come to my house, instead of meeting in a neutral place like a library, I did the entire project so that you’d owe me. In year 8 I gave you a bunch of gifts, a really inappropriate quantity, and continued to do so even after you made it abundantly clear that you didn’t want them. By the time the school disco rolled around in year 9, you knew me well enough to know that I wouldn’t take no for an answer, so you made up an excuse and left the whole dance to escape from me, and somehow it’s me and not you who got the worst end of that stick. In year 10, I bought you another grossly inappropriate gift that required you to spend time with me in order to use it, and when you misunderstood how I wanted you to use it I didn’t say anything but just stewed on that information. And now, in year 11, I’m going to publish my victim complex and the entire history of how I’ve stalked you over the past five years, comfortable in the knowledge that because I’m a man, I will be taken seriously and you’ll be vilified.”

She has every right to think boys are dicks. Here’s example number one. This post is really really gross. He shouldn’t get a certificate; he needs to get a restraining order.

toby walters: world’s creepiest asshole

Story of my god damn life.

“Boys will be boys” “just be flattered” “he’s just being sweet”

No, fuck off, go away.

I have all sorts of little trinkets - a tiny Eiffel Tower, cheap jewelry, tourist trinkets from random places… All shoved in a shoe box because while the boys & the unwanted gifts made me feel super uncomfortable I feel bad, to this day, for not being “appreciative” - throwing them away would be mean and bitchy…. But every unwanted trinket came from some poor boy I “led on” by wanting to be friends. Their weird advances were to be expected because what else should they do, a girl can’t be just their friend without wanting more right? SMH

This breakdown / takedown is glorious. Nice guys don’t get freebies when it’s unwanted attention just cause they’re “nice” - nice is just another way to manipulate.

I’m glad I’m not the only one who found this extremely creepy. Everyone has the right not to like you. A girl has every right not to like a guy, and a guy has every right not to like a girl. A girl has every right not to like a girl too, and the same goes for two guys.

Just because you are being nice, just because you are trying very hard, that does not make the other person obligated to like you back. That’s not how it works. Because that is, as has been said above, manipulation.

Ok, it’s sad when someone does not return your affection. But that doesn’t make someone mean or a bitch or a dick. Rejecting someone is not mean. Yes, you can do it in a mean way but in itself it is not mean.

And I am so, so sick of being called a bitch for rejecting guys I “lead on”. Because I don’t. I am a friendly person, and I’m nice. But I do not try to lead anyone on that I am not interested in. Yeah, I’m nice, you talk to me I’ll be civil and probably pretty nice to you as well. But I’m sick of being called mean for refusing to go on a date that I clearly never wanted to go on. 

That is creepy as hell.

*clears throat*

If a girl doesn’t want you, move the hell on. Please. It’s creepy, scary, and she will never EVER love you.

Because that type of “you owe me” attitude is foul as all get out.

I’m sorry you were promised a hot woman who’d worship you and loads of money upon reaching puberty.

Because you were lied to. We are not your object to screw and throw aside.

Sick bastard.

(Source: now-wecanthaveit, via ifoundalovee)